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  1. Oh, my goodness, Charlie had quite the stress-ul (my letter “e–” has stopped working on my keyboard) day yesterday. I hope he’s more relaxed and calm by now. You, too,

    It is SO exhausting dealing with this hot, hot weather. I am praying that I can get some kind o- help to get an air conditioner even i- it means only a window model. I just have no energy at all.

    Raining again here late this a-ternoon. More mosquitoes. Yuck. Do you have mosquitoes there? Somehow I think o- the western states as too dry, but I know you’ve had quite a bit o- rain this year.

    Take care and stay cool, you three.

  2. I was so sad hearing what a horrible time you and Charlie did have…I am like that, too…stress makes me unable to think clearly. I agree with some of your other friends as state above, possibly consider if the stress of it all for Charlie and for yourself will be worth the acupuncture sessions…I have heard positive about it in humans, though…so possibly worth another try or two..of course, being your decision as you are living through it all. It is always hard worrying about a sick pet..digs at our hearts….I have some seniors, as well..and it is something quite a bit.. Take care and again love seeing your quilts…Have a peaceful holiday..hope the fireworks are not excessive..

  3. Have you tried Rescue Remedy for Charlie when you take him out? Most stores carry it, such as big box health food stores like Whole Foods or Natural Foods or Natures, etc. It’s drops and works great for animals who get nervous, anxious and upset. It’s for people, but I know many who use it for their pets, alpacas, etc. It’s called “Bach, Natural Flower Essences – Rescue Remedy”. I’m sure you can get it on Amazon. Is a brown bottle with a yellow label. It might really help him to not get so stressed. Marilyn

    1. No, but I bought Composure chews from the vet and they don’t seem to work to calm him.

  4. I hate taking my cats to the vet for all the same reasons. They get so nervous and scared with all the strange smells, the dogs barking and the car ride. Clementine needs blood work done next week and I dread taking her. My cats are also terrified of fireworks. I put them in the basement at night where it’s quieter, make sure the AC is running full tilt (for a noise blocker) and I also run a fan on high down there. Poor things can still hear all the booms and the house shaking, so I find them hiding under furniture. I don’t like loud noises either, so I never go to the fireworks displays. It also dismays me to know that they greatly upset those with PTSD from being in the Service and the noise also kills birds and butterflies.

    1. Our world has become noise polluted. In fact I read that’s the biggest pollutant currently. Noise pollution. Ridiculous.

  5. Oh my gosh what an awful day for Charlie and you too. Maybe the Cbd oil would be good for him. My Morkie is a pain in the butt in the car. I dread having to take him anywhere. Almost makes me cry. Charlie just needs to stay home with his mama and get some love and be pampered. Not looking forward to the 4th either. Lots of shotguns here. Crazy people.

    1. He likes to go out if it’s just in the car with me. He has his soft bed in the passenger seat and enjoys it.

  6. Brenda, do you think that Charlie’s sessions are doing him more harm than good, given his level of stress? Hate to see the little guy uncomfortable.

  7. I awful with names. I forget them as soon as I hear them sometimes.
    My dog’s temperature always goes up when we take her to the vet even though she loves them. She gets so excited in the car. They put that in her records as it always happens. Even in winter. We hate to take her anywhere in the summer.
    I know what you mean by having an older dog. We lost our corgi in late May. He was 12 1/2.

  8. Brenda,

    I found myself holding my breath, reading about Charlie. I’m wishing for peaceful quiet time for both of you.

  9. Brenda, I hope that you and Charlie can have a few days of relaxing. I don’t like fire works either. When I was young, there was only fireworks at the park and it was fun to watch the show. Now, people set them off in their back yards or on their driveways and you can’t get away from the sound. The best experience with fireworks that I’ve ever had was a few years ago when my husband and I drove to a state park on July Fourth, and when we drove home in the evening on the interstate highway we could see fireworks going off in different towns but we didn’t have to hear the noise since we were too far away. It was such a fun drive!

    As for last names, I took my first husband’s last name when we married, even though he told me he couldn’t understand why because he would never change his name for anyone. But I wanted us and future kids to have the same last name. So when we separated years later, I got an apartment and called to get a phone line, and the clerk said the phone number I once had before I got married was available. She asked if I wanted it again and I said sure, but I don’t think I caught on that she kept the listing in my maiden name. I told my then-husband what the number was, he must have misplaced it, so he had to call the operator and he asked for the number in my married name. They didn’t have it, so he thought to ask for it in my maiden name and got it. So he called and proceeded to chew me out for using my maiden name, saying it proved I was wanting to be single and was not going to be serious about going to the marriage counselor and working on our marriage. This from the man who didn’t even want me to take the name in the first place, and who treated me like crap for eight years. Oh well. I tried to explain that I didn’t realize it was in my maiden name, but, he wouldn’t listen and kept acting like he had been victimized. I did indeed take my maiden name back when we got divorced because I didn’t want to have his last name after that and other uncooperative things he did during the marriage counseling. But, I did take my second husband’s name when I remarried years later. I like his last name and think it goes better with my first name! I’m sticking with this last name for here on out.

  10. I’ve always considered acupuncture to have benefits. I wonder if Charlie feels any benefit from the procedures at all given his distress suffered from the time he leaves the house until he returns and can calm himself. Do they offer home therapy visits? Other options? This is good information for pet parents. Thanks for sharing your experience. Good luck.

  11. When my mother would say all three of our names, we called that a roll call and all laughed. I read that saying all the names of family members at once means you love them. Family and love are processed in the same part of the brain.

  12. Oh,Brenda, our lives seem to mirror one another at times.
    Except it’s one cat or another to the vet with me,my 2 grown kids ask if they’ve completed the Bella and Buddy wing on the vet’s office yet,smarty pants that they are.
    I’ve been going to the same doctor’s office in the same place for coming on 10 years,I started a conversation with the office manager awhile back and stood chatting while I realized I had no clue what her name is… yesterday I was on the phone with a good friend of 26 years and I started a topic,got 1/2 way through it and had to confess I had know clue where I was going with it, fortunately she knows me well!
    I remember laughing and teasing my grandma when she would go through every grand before she got to me,lol.
    Old age ain’t for sissies.
    Ivy looks quite cozy wrapped around the table?

  13. Oh what a tangled web we weave !
    I understand this post fully !
    Poor Charlie too much stress just taking him out for you and for him !
    Get him on CBD OIL and just forget it all he will thank you for it !
    Take care and be brave thru it all we are baby boomers and we will make it somehow !
    It is too hot in Tennessee too to be out staying in for the fourth !!

  14. Awww poor sweet Charlie!! Molly gets upset when her routine is disturbed, also – and I can’t take her any distance in the car or she gets so anxious she throws up. Good thing she’s happy at home, and playing in the garden!

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