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  1. A P.S.–I have just read a great book entitled STARVING by Christen Bensten, a young woman whose blog, Blue Egg, Brown Nest, I have been reading for a while. She chronicles her growing up in a home where she was not fed physically nor emotionally by a mother who was mentally ill and a father who was distant. She tells a harrowing story of physical and mental suffering throughout her childhood and youth even into her adulthood and her struggles to heal. Many, however, do not heal and that fact brings us back to the realities that Jeffrey Rinek writes about in his book. Christen’s book is available on Amazon if any of you are interested in reading it.

  2. So sad; I grieve for Mr. Rinek who is truly a war casualty. I fervently hope that somehow he can be healed. And that our society could be healed of these terrible acts of violence. So often I believe that those who commit acts of violence have experienced acts of violence themselves, primarily as young children. It seems like a never-ending cycle. Where to start to turn the situation around? Family and child care support, mental health services, more job opportunities—?? A government focussed more on the welfare of the middle and lower classes instead of supporting the wealthy would be a place to start. Such a huge, huge undertaking on many levels to make a difference.

    Thanks for sharing Mr. Rinek’s story. An eye-opener.

  3. Even those of us who suffered less than these poor children do not come out unscathed…the question will always be: “Who would have I have been if I had not had to live through such?” So sad…so many wasted lives!! I am grateful for those who battle such things…so needed they are!! Glad you have cardinals…one of the things I so miss about living in NC was our “deck buddies” among whom where several cardinal pairs. Such hard working parents they are and producing several batches a year of baby birds too.

  4. I hope the hand specialist recommends surgery. I just had surgery on my right wrist for capal tunnel really bad, plus a “trigger” finger that would not close and was sore. It’s been 2 weeks.. still can barely use my right hand, and the incision for the trigger finger “fix” is still very sore and finger very sore. But I think in a few weeks it will all be well and I’ll be glad I did it. Next will be my left hand. It is very sore from overuse as it’s my only hand right now.. is numb all the time and aches all the time, but no trigger finger on that hand so I think the surgery will be easier. they do it with just a tiny incision and use a little thing on a camera to go up and cut where they need to. Very easy surgery.. it’s general anesthesia. Hope it will work for you. I notice my right hand already does not go numb at night which is wonderful (even with wearing a hand brace it would go numb). Good luck! Marilyn

  5. Brenda,
    so glad to hear that your back is getting better. Any progress is a stepping stone to relief. I can empathize with the hand issues. Strangely for me, one of the side affects of my second Moderna shot is numbness is the top digits of my left thumb, forefinger and middle finger. I am right-hand dominant and had the second shot in my right arm. I still have a scaly dime sized patch where I was vaccinated weeks later. So weird.
    Love the story of “Ivy” and her rubber bands, I probably would’ve freaked out thinking she might have decided to chew on one. Always looking forward to your posts, especiallly the ducks and cardinals etc.
    So sorry about your blue fountain mishap. Have you any thoughts on your new fountain? I saw an ad from a local hardware store, “Bayview Lumber” in Elma, Washington and they featured a super cute fountain made up of different sized galvanized containers. I’m sure you have used Pinterest and other web sites to search for ideas for your new fountain. Love how your garden is maturing.

  6. Wondering if you have ever tried lidocaine patches to help when you get these episodes of back pain and are so disabled. My mother used them and they really helped her a lot, as she had chronic back pain due to failing kidneys over many years. You can buy non-prescription strength at most pharmacies. We finally got some of your rain here, where the entire southeastern portion of the state has been under drought conditions. Like magic, things grew inches and the grass areas that had not flourished yet turned green and are now growing literally overnight. There is just no substitute for rain. Last week I watered the flower beds in my back yard because they were so dry, and the plants did perk up quite a bit, but nothing compared to what they look like after an inch of rain. Just no substitute for rain.

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