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  1. Aw, Brenda…I’m so sorry to hear about sweet Abi. I’ve been moving and offline and missed what you’ve been through. It really is so hard to go through…so, so hard. I know it has left a big hole in your life and I know Charlie will comfort you. Give him lots of hugs…
    I am so very sorry for your loss.

  2. You are so wise, Brenda. Thank you for sharing your wisdom. Your blog has changed my life and given me a greater understanding about life. As always, thinking of you and Charlie. Hugs…
    Gayle

  3. I so enjoy your writing ! Have you ever considered writing fiction ? I think you would be good !

    1. I have. But it takes so long. I kind of lose interest in long projects.

  4. You write so beautifully, Brenda and I ~ we ~ are all so grateful that you can put into words the heartache that wracks all of us at one time or another. The loss of that unconditional love is absolutely profound. I remember feeling as though I was slogging through the days, one foot in front of the other. Suddenly one day it was a bit easier but even so, I wouldn’t surrender the memories of my Tootsie for anything. After all this time they still bring joy.

    1. Me either. Sacrifice the memories. This morning seems Charlie may have another urinary infection. Was just treated for one last month. I’ve called the vet. This stuff scares me to death now.

  5. Love the signature? Is that what it called…….signing off xoBrenda & Charlie
    Hugs

    1. Yes, that’s what it’s called. I saw a reader do that and I copied. Carol and Molly

  6. Some years ago, when I was in a very dark place in my life, someone said to me that grief is three quarters nostalgia, that we have no choice but to ‘process’ it, and that, eventually, memories prove kind. We would suffer no grief if we did not love. Hang in there, Brenda, and give yourself all the time you need.

  7. I like a rainy morning too; my dogs let me sleep later!
    Enjoyed your thoughts on grief….
    Hope you and Charlie are having a nice day together.

    1. We are on the couch together. If we’re not out on the patio, or back in the bedroom, then this is our usual spot.

  8. Good afternoon Brenda and Charlie,
    I hope that you are inside relaxing and enjoying the rain. Sometimes a break from the hot sun is a good thing.

    Grief is a strange thing because it takes different forms day by day, some days you can smile and laugh at a funny memory without crying and other days everytime you think of your loved one your are crying. As if have said before, cherish the memories with Abbie that fill your heart, she was a special pup.

    Have a wonderful day!

  9. How wonderful to receive all the books free in the mail! Know you enjoy them! I love to read but have to settle for cheap books on kindle or slim pickings at our small library. I enjoy your reviews

    1. Just a thought, Susan. I also have a very small library, but they are part of the county library system and can get books that you reserve online and then pick up at your own library. So if I see a book I would like to read, I go into my account online, reserve it, and just wait for the email to pick it up. This is in Pennsylvania, Chester county, but you could check it out in your area. It’s wonderful! Love our libraries!
      Mary

    2. I read them and then give them to my daughter. Once she’s read them, she gives them either to her church or place of business.

  10. I’m going to look for that book… sounds compelling and altogether different from any I have read before. Thanks for the recommendation.

    I keep hoping there’s a kitten adoption post here.. LOL.. I know, I know – pushing it, I am.

    1. I sure want to. I saw a pure white kitten on the shelter website today. Was so tempted.

      1. My fear would be ‘what if’. What if Charlie and the kitten did not bond, what if Charlie felt pushed aside again?

  11. I’m so glad you have Charlie. When I lost my kitty I had no other pet and my heart was so lonely. It did take me awhile to feel ready for another cat and I’m so thankful for her love and company. I like that, Grief is the rear view mirror. I’m still seeing it myself some two years later. Not as often, but it’s there. I love the reviews you do of books, so many good one’s to add to my long list!! Hugs!

  12. We have been having lots of rain these past few days with a few thunderstorms thrown in. I love the chance to slow down and listen to the rain and sit down with a good book to read. And after the rain, it is so nice to hear the birds chirping happily and visiting our feeders.

    It is good to read your post today — the message is comforting.

    1. I would enjoy the quiet. Except there are screaming children at the pool.

      1. I do not think I could handle the screaming children. Guess the tendency for most children is to scream in excitement or to be heard but it is sure hard on the ears! And it sure intrudes on quiet time.

  13. I know that “pain” will continue to lessen for you each day. It sounds like the two of you are enjoying your day, listening to the rain, with Charlie napping beside you. It sounds very relaxing to me. We too are having thunderstorms every afternoon; I just wish I could be at home when they come. I look forward to your reviews on the two books you just got in the mail. With all that rain, your flowers are looking very pretty and oh so vibrant. Stay dry!

    Carol and Molly

    1. I’m glad you like the reviews, Carol and Molly! Did you notice I added Charlie to my bottom signature? I did it because of you with Molly.

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