R.I.P My Sweet Charlie Ross
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R.I.P., my sweet Charlie Ross.
Yesterday afternoon, I took Charlie to an emergency veterinarian and had him euthanized. He was doing poorly and could barely get around. I’ve put it off, and I can’t bear to see him barely able to move about.
It was time.
We’d been having a lot of sleepless nights where he couldn’t get his breath or stop coughing.
When it got to the point in time where I was having to give him more medication than was called for, I knew it was too much for him to keep going.
Charlie Ross Pruitt: September 18, 2006 – April 28, 2021
I loved him so very, very much, and always will. And I was with him, petting him and telling him how much I loved him as he left this world behind.
I am heartbroken. He was almost 15, and I had spent every single day with him by my side, sleeping with him every single night. And I miss my Charlie boy terribly. And I miss singing to him at night as I always did. I miss him lying next to me in this chair.
Grief is so complicated. Letting them go is so very hard.
Charlie has now crossed the Rainbow Bridge and is out of pain. I hope Abi was there waiting for him.
But loss is part of life. And if you dare to love, then you will inevitably feel loss at some point. That is, unfortunately, the price you pay for love.
My sweet Charlie lives on in my heart.
I love you to the moon and back, Charlie boy.
It’s just Ivy and me now. We will grieve together, saddened, but grateful to have one another.
The Rainbow Bridge:
Just this side of heaven is a place called The Rainbow Bridge.
When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge. There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together. There is plenty of food, water, and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.
All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor. Those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by. The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind.
They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent. His eager body quivers. Suddenly, he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.
You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.
Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together….Author unknown…
A Jar of Zinnias:
This morning, I went out and cut a jar of zinnias. It is a simple and unfussy bouquet that I can enjoy indoors.
I have Charlie’s ashes now. His and Abi’s ashes are side by side on my bookshelf.
Such heartbreaking news. My condolences as you weather this difficult loss. I am sure meeting Abi over the rainbow bridge was a joy for him. You really were the best mama he could have had. Hugs for you and Ivy.
I’m so sorry for your loss. I’m sure Charlie & Abi are running & playing again. My thoughts are with you at this difficult time.
I’m so sorry, Brenda! You did all you could. That’s all you can do. You kept him going for a long time. How is Ivy taking it?
Dear Brenda I am so sad to hear about your sweet Charlie. I had tears when I read this. My prayers are with you. He will be missed in your blog. He now is free of pain.
So very sorry
I am so very, very sorry…you were a GREAT momma to him…
xoxo,
Nina
I’m so sorry Brenda, I know the love you had for him. The best gift is the last gift we can give them – to end their pain, but it is the hardest one to give. Such a sweet boy he was, cherish the memories 💕
Oh Brenda! I am so, so sorry for your loss of sweet Charlie Ross. I know he holds a special place in your heart as all your animals do. Wish I knew what to say to make this easier on you, but no words can suffice. Big hugs to you Brenda. Sandra
I’m so, so sorry about your sweet Charlie! He lived a wonderful long life with you. My thoughts and prayers are with you. It’s so very hard to lose our babies. 🙏🏻🙏🏻💔💔❤️❤️
dear Brenda, I am so sad and sorry to hear this, but he is free now with Abi. Your love for him was without measure and you helped him with that last thing that you could do for him. Deep condolences. Hold Ivy close, if not physically, then emotionally. She understands.
Mary
I am so sorry. I’m at a loss for words. I learn a lot from you. Hug 🤗
I am so sorry to hear about your sweet Charlie. Hugs and healing ❣️
So, so sorry, Brenda! My heart breaks for you. Praying for you!
I’m so sorry, Brenda. Charlie was such a lovable little guy. I know Abbie was there to meet him when he crossed over. I can imagine them running and jumping, pain-free, knowing how much they were loved by their mama.
I’m so sorry Brenda. You are such a wonderful pet parent. I hope we your readers are able to bring you some comfort as you have for us over the years. Sending you hugs and comfort across the country. And yes, Abi was certainly waiting for him. ❤️
I’m so very sorry. I know how much you loved him and how much he’ll be missed. Sending virtual hugs.
I am so very sorry, Brenda. But I’m glad he is no longer having to fight to breathe.
Hugs ~
Dear Brenda
Sending most heartfelt condolences of the loss of your puppy dog. Praying for your broken heart. You did all you could do and had the courage to make a tough decision. Fall back on your beautiful memories as your grieve. Thinking of you.
I am so sorry Brenda. I have been following you forever and it feels as if I have lost one of my own. The sweet boy is now free of pain and at peace. Hugs
Oh Brenda, I am so very, very sorry to hear this about Charlie. The love you had for him showed in your writings, and I know he knew the love you had for each other. May you find peace and comfort through memories and photos. Losing a pet is like losing a part of oneself.
May knowing your sweet Charlie is no longer in pain comfort you as you mourn his loss. He was much loved by all who knew him.
I’m so sorry……I know that feeling when your most beloved dog is looking into your eyes as he passes away……I’ve experienced it not once, but twice……it is heartbreaking. RIP Charlie.
Dear Brenda, I am so sorry.
Debbie
Oh, my goodness. May heart hurts hearing this sad news. I hope you find peace knowing how much your loving care for him sustained him. You gave him a wonderful life in a loving home. Rest in peace, dear Charlie ❤️
Oh, Brenda, my heart aches for you. I know your pain and the terrible emptiness you feel. You were a wonderful mother and Charlie was one lucky dog to have you. Take comfort in knowing that he is no longer in pain and that he is running and playing with sweet Abi. Thinking of you and sending big hugs….Janice
Oh so sorry, Brenda…such days are so hard!! I know you will miss him…some dogs we never get past missing badly…at least that has been how it is for me. But hope you can have peace knowing you kept him going much longer than probably anyone else could have. That is a good age for any kind of dog!!
I’m so sorry.
Charlie touched some many lives through your blog. He was greatly loved and he will be greatly missed by so many who never met him or had the chance to pet him. Those of us who have lost beloved pets know your loss and pain. You did your very best for him and gave him excellent care. No dog was as attentively cared for as Charlie was. He was a lion in a tiny body guarding you from possums and any critter that dared invade his patio. I know you always made the best decisions concerning Charlie. I think he would thank you for the release from his ongoing pain and struggles. You made every accommodation possible to extend his quality of life. He lived a happy life with you. All dogs would want the life he had. You’re a great Mom, Btenda.
So sorry to hear this. Charlie was so special. I’m sure Abi was waiting on him.
So sorry for your loss. He was such a cute fur baby. It’s very hard to lose one you have had that long. So very sorry. Wilma Swank
I’m so very sorry for your loss. You were the best Mom Charlie Ross could have ever had.
“Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, but love leaves a memory no one can steal”. RIP sweet Charlie Ross
XOXOXO